Turns out, this may all be connected.
The careers. The hobbies. The side quests. The strangely transferable skills. The business ideas that show up at 11:40pm and suddenly convince you to research domain names for two hours.
I’m Absolutely Not Picking a Lane gives all of it somewhere to live—your overlapping interests, recurring patterns, evolving identity eras, and “wait… why do I keep coming back to this?” moments.
It’s a place to connect the dots between all the things you’ve learned, built, loved, explored, abandoned, restarted, and somehow carried with you anyway.
Because eventually there comes a point where:
“I keep reinventing myself”
starts sounding a lot less accurate than:
“Oh. I’ve actually been building the same deeply specific thing this whole time.”
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A Vibebook for the people whose lives somehow keep collecting career pivots, creative side quests, unexpected expertise, identity reinventions, and “wait… why am I weirdly good at this?” moments.
Inside, you’ll find:
Pages for connecting overlapping interests, strengths, skill sets, and recurring patterns. The kind where you suddenly realize your “random” experiences may have been building on each other this whole time.
Interactive exercises for tracing the themes that keep following you around. Creative work. Leadership. Storytelling. Systems. Research. Community-building. Teaching. Strategy. Aesthetic opinions that somehow became employable. You know. The usual.
Space to explore identity eras, abandoned plans, alternate-life careers, and the projects you still think about for absolutely no reason.
A framework to stop treating your interests like they’re competing with each other for one final surviving slot on a reality show.
Printable + digital pages you can use however your brain works best. Scribble in it. Highlight things aggressively. Open it at 11:40pm during an identity spiral. This is a judgment-free zone.
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1️⃣ Download Your Vibebook – Instant access, because making you wait while you’re in the middle of a full-blown “wait… this explains a LOT actually” moment felt unnecessarily rude.
2️⃣ Follow the Breadcrumbs – Circle things. Highlight patterns. Get mildly concerned by how many times the same themes keep showing up in completely different areas of your life.
3️⃣ Connect the Dots Without Forcing a Conclusion – This isn’t about choosing one perfect identity or suddenly deciding to become a lavender farmer in Vermont. It’s about noticing the overlap between the things that keep pulling you in.
4️⃣ Revisit Whenever a New Side Quest Appears – Which, statistically speaking, should be sometime next Wednesday.
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Format: Printable + digital PDF
Length: A satisfyingly substantial Vibebook experience (23 pages) without turning into a full-time commitment
Compatibility: GoodNotes, Notability, PDF apps, printers, clipboards, desks covered in gel pens, and “I’ll just open this for five minutes” situations
Printing: Sized for standard home printers & looks extremely cool on good paper
Delivery: Instant digital download (because identity revelations should not require shipping delays)
Energy Level: Somewhere between “career reflection” and “Charlie Day conspiracy board,” but in a fun way
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Wait, is this career coaching?
Absolutely not. There are no networking worksheets, “optimize your personal brand” exercises, or instructions to become the kind of person who unironically says “thought leadership.”
So… what is it then?
It’s an interactive Vibebook for connecting the dots between your interests, skills, recurring patterns, identity eras, side quests, and “hang on, why do I keep ending up here?” moments. Think: part guide, part workbook, part interactive templates, part personality quiz, 100% necessary.
Do I need to fill out every page in order?
Nope. This is not homework. Wander around. Skip pages. Come back later after a documentary changes the trajectory of your entire week.
Is this only for business owners or creative careers?
Not at all. This is for curious humans with layered lives, overlapping interests, and a long personal history of becoming unexpectedly invested in things.
What if I genuinely have no idea what I’m doing with my life?
Perfect. Honestly, that’s kind of the natural habitat for this thing.
Is this therapy?
No. But there is a non-zero chance you’ll have at least one:
“Ohhhhhh. THAT explains some things.”
moment while using it.Can I use this digitally?
Yep. It works beautifully in GoodNotes, Notability, and PDF apps—or you can print it out and aggressively annotate it with emotionally supportive gel pens.
